Thank you for the detailled answer.
I can understand you do not want to open it up if it's working fine

Will do some research. But at this point: I'm already extremely happy the code
develloped on my breadbord runs fine on the "real" GTI300W. (without actually driving the AC FET's. But I replaced the fuse, disconnected the PWM pin from the µC to the UCC, so it thinks all is well, without running anything

I'm going to experiment with two waveforms.
Currently I have set up the original waveform in a 10ms period.
I'll try to move some of the "0" "'0" "0" "0" before and after waveform "A" and waveform "B" to better compensate/match it with the optocoupler/grid.
But if that does not give enough margin, Maybe then I'll make the period a (little) bit smaller, to account for the 1 ms dead time?
If that does not cause too much ill side effects?